I have been in a serious relationship for what seems like forever. I mean from one relationship to another and back and forth with my kids fathers until I couldn't stomach the fact of being a fool anymore. Never once have I needed to think outside the box, you just don't do that where Im from, but here I am writing about my experience.
A couple of weeks ago I made a post on Craigslist saying that I wanted to meet someone capable of liking me for me, and not trying to rule me or use me to the brink of insanity, Is anyone out there? that was the question, and I found 25 men whom are looking for me (being very sarcastic). Mainly all of them were older then what I would normally feel safe in liking, but hey who am I to judge, right?
Then I met him, we'll call him Fred, we began to text and that went on for days, he too is lonely and wants someone to hang out with, now again this isn't for the sex, it was for finding a companion..for real no BS
I tended not to pay him much attention and sent him texts when it hit me that he had text me first.
Now mind you my friend says that I have to be in a relationship cause I am scared of being without a man, but really I like being in the company of a good man, big difference..
We met and he took me to see an Orchestra, and me being black and him white, it was awesome, very nice. I set there and compared this to my other "dates", well really you can't compare 2 hours at a concert to 8 hours of hot nasty, but lovely relations, not a chance..lol
But it was nice to be taken somewhere of that magnitude, and we had a conversation that carried on throughout the night, in my mind I was thinking damn, for real I done met a white man off the internet and it wasn't even scary, until I smelt his Eternity, Hmmmm delicious,
Well lets just say that I let him drive me home and drop me off with the intentions of him calling again after he got home, and that has been it, not the same amount of texting, no phone calls until I get a text saying that he's going through some drama, son's girlfriend is pregnant and his ex wants to work it out....BS Not once did we talk about this ex girlfriend and the 3 kids that he told me about turned out to be 6 spread out between states, wow Now if that aint some all men be on the same shit
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